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How to Work Less Earn More with SuperME BE-DO-HAVE

If you are like most people, you work hard to earn a good living, so as to provide a good life for yourself and your family.  

Most people live life in the DO → HAVE → BE loop.

They DO more, hoping to HAVE more, and only then can BE happy or be someone.

But this path is ineffective.  First, working longer hours and harder ruins your physical and mental health.  Second, having more money may not necessarily lead to happiness, especially when material success is prioritized over other aspects, such as family, fulfillment, and peace of mind. Third, you may not be able to enjoy what you have, as you may not have the time, health, or energy after being exhausted from working too hard.  

There is an easier way.  The SuperME way. 
SuperME flips that.

💥 The easier and more effective way is to start with BEing.

When you are BEing the right person, you'll naturally DO the right things and HAVE the results.  A simple example is: when I am focused (BE), I'll work more effectively (D0) and naturally get good results (HAVE).   

🌟 BEING a SuperME Means:

  • You own your identity — not defined by job titles, results, or failures.

  • You lead with Purpose — knowing exactly why you're doing what you do.

  • You radiate Love — not as weakness, but as a force of strength, connection, and influence.

  • You practise Gratitude — turning every moment, even hardship, into fuel.

🧠 Think of it like this:

BE (SuperME) × DO (Aligned Action) = HAVE (True Abundance)

        When you raise your score for BE, you can still DO less (like less               hours) and HAVE more.   

When you BE your SuperME first:

  • You stop chasing validation.  

  • You start attracting opportunities.

  • You no longer just work for results—you work with resonance.

🛑 Stop being a Survival-Me:

  • Blaming, Excusing, Denying your way through life.

✅ Start being a SuperME:

  • Take Ownership, Be Accountable, and Rise with Responsibility.


SuperME is about: 
BE first. DO next. HAVE always.

Written by Andy Ng, inspired by the book SuperME Unleashed and teachings from Dr Vivian Passion Koh at here (https://fb.com/groups/supermeunleashed)

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