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Purpose Love Gratitude by Dr Vivian Passion Koh


The "Purpose Love Gratitude" concept, as developed by Vivian Passion Koh, is a holistic personal development framework designed to foster fulfillment and well-being by integrating three core principles: Purpose, Love, and Gratitude. Here's a breakdown of each component and how they interconnect:

1. Purpose

Definition: Identifying one’s life mission, passions, or "why." It emphasizes aligning actions with meaningful goals to create direction and motivation.

Role: Acts as the foundation for intentional living, helping individuals channel energy into what truly matters to them.

Practices: Goal-setting, self-reflection, and values clarification exercises to uncover personal or professional aspirations.


2. Love

Definition: Cultivating compassion—both self-love and love for others. It encourages empathy, kindness, and nurturing relationships.

Role: Serves as the emotional and relational driver, fostering connection and resilience. Love motivates actions rooted in care rather than fear.

Practices: Loving-kindness meditation, boundary-setting for self-respect, and acts of service to strengthen community ties.


3. Gratitude

Definition: Actively appreciating life’s blessings, both big and small, to shift focus from scarcity to abundance.


Role: Acts as a sustaining force, enhancing positivity and reducing stress. Gratitude reinforces purpose and love by highlighting progress and joy.


Practices: Daily gratitude journaling, mindfulness, and reflective rituals to acknowledge growth and opportunities.


Interconnection

The framework posits that these elements are interdependent:


  1. Purpose provides direction, fueled by Love (passion for goals and care for others).
  2. Gratitude sustains motivation by fostering contentment and resilience, even during challenges.
  3. Together, they create a cycle where living purposefully, compassionately, and thankfully leads to holistic well-being.


Applications

Personal Growth: Workshops, coaching, or journals guiding individuals to integrate these principles into daily life.


Community Impact: Encourages collective action driven by shared purpose, empathy, and appreciation.


While specifics of Vivian’s methodology may vary, the concept aligns with broader self-help themes, offering a structured approach to overcoming modern struggles like aimlessness, isolation, and dissatisfaction. It resonates with similar philosophies (e.g., Brené Brown’s work on vulnerability, Simon Sinek’s "Start With Why") but is distinguished by its tripartite emphasis on purpose, love, and gratitude as inseparable pillars.

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