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LQ and Yijing “爱的智慧” 和易经有关系吗?

Some people say Love Intelligence (LQ) is based on Yijing (I Ching).
That is not entirely wrong — but it is incomplete.

Yijing was never really about fortune-telling.
At its core, it teaches three things:
understanding change, adapting to change, and making the right decisions at the right time.

Love Intelligence applies this wisdom to human beings.

In Yijing:

  • Ren (仁) is about understanding and caring for life

  • Yi (义) is about doing the right thing at critical moments

  • Zhong (中) is about maintaining balance amid change

Translated into Love Intelligence, these become:

  • Care — seeing and understanding people

  • Courage — acting rightly when it matters

  • Connection — sustaining relationships through change

Yijing teaches us:

True wisdom is not about controlling change, but guiding it.

Love Intelligence is exactly that —
using care to guide human emotion,
using courage to guide direction,
and using connection to create long-term outcomes.

So a simple way to put it is:

Yijing teaches the wisdom of change.
Love Intelligence brings that wisdom into human relationships and leadership.

The Yijing teaches us to move with circumstances.
Love Intelligence teaches us to move with people.

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有人说「爱的智慧」源自《易经》,这个说法并不完全错,但并不完整。

《易经》讲的核心,从来不是算命,而是三件事:
看懂变化、顺应变化、做对的选择。

「爱的智慧」正是把《易经》的精神落地到人。

在《易经》里:
仁,是对万物的体察与关怀
义,是在关键时刻做对的事
中,是在变化中保持平衡

这对应到爱的智慧,就是:
关心(Care):看见人、理解人
勇气(Courage):在关键时刻不逃避
连接(Connection):让关系在变化中持续

《易经》教我们:
真正的智慧,不是控制变化,而是引导变化。
爱的智慧,正是用关心引导人心,用勇气引导方向,用连接创造长期的善果。

所以可以这样总结一句:
《易经》讲的是变化的智慧,
爱的智慧,是把这种智慧,用在人身上。

《易经》教我们顺势而为,爱的智慧教我们顺人而行。

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