What You Know About Love is Destroying You

Love isn’t what you think it is.

Explain it carefully, because this misunderstanding is destroying relationships.

Most people say love is about finding the right person.
That’s not love. That’s dependence.

A relationship is not love.
A relationship is a structure — a role, an agreement, a container.

Love is a state inside you.

Think about it.
Why can a sunset move you?
Why can a dog soften your heart?
Why can music make you cry?

You didn’t negotiate.
You didn’t receive anything back.

Because love is not something you do.
It’s something you become.

When your inner state is loving,
everything you touch feels lighter, warmer, more meaningful.

The dangerous lie we were taught is this:
that love only exists because of another person.

That belief creates fear, attachment, and control.

Here’s the truth from Love Intelligence:
If your heart is already loving,
when someone enters your life, you share love.

And if no one is there,
you can sit quietly — and still feel whole.

That is freedom.
That is emotional maturity.
That is Love Intelligence.

Stop searching for love outside.
Become love — and watch your entire world respond.