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The Untold Truth about Right Timing, Right Choice and AI

After living for 62 years, I’ve come to a simple conclusion about success.

People argue about what makes someone successful.

  • Some say it’s luck.
  • Some say it’s making the right choices.
  • Others say it’s timing, connections, or now AI.

All of these matter.

But none of them are consistent.

The only factor I’ve seen appear again and again, across people, industries, and generations, is this:

Doing what is not comfortable.

Yes, you must understand the flow.

Yes, you must read the environment.

But when it comes to execution, success always demands one thing:the willingness to push through discomfort.

  • Getting out of the comfort zone.
  • Doing what is not easy.
  • Having the courage to act when it would be simpler to stay still.

That is exactly how Love Intelligence came into being.

And later, its Chinese edition, 《爱的智慧》.

Writing them was not comfortable.

Putting “love” into leadership, business, and success was not fashionable.

But I pushed through because I believed deeply in the message.

The same was true when Dr Vivian Passion Koh and I decided to publish SuperME Unleashed, a book that contains our struggles and lessons for exeutives today. 

It took courage, commitment, and many uncomfortable conversations.

But meaningful work always does.

These two are not books; they are manuals for success, materials drawn from my over 39 years of work experience, including training slides and coaching conversations: SuperME Unleashed and Love Intelligence.

If there’s one thing I hope you take from this, it’s this:

Growth never happens inside comfort.

It happens the moment you choose to step beyond it.

As a small Christmas gesture for those who resonate with this message:

  • 1 book at S$34.95
  • 2 books at S$39.95 (Christmas special)

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