A parent lied about an address to get a child into a “better” school.
Why?
Because of love? Yes.
But also because of fear.
Fear of losing out.
Fear that “if I don’t do this, my child will fall behind.”
This is where most people get it wrong.
They think:
“If I’m doing this for my child, it must be right.”
But Love Intelligence is not just about intention.
It is about alignment between care, courage, and truth.
In this case:
- There is care (wanting the best for the child)
- But there is no courage (to accept the system, or find another path)
- And there is a break in integrity and connection (lying, bending rules)
So this is not Love Intelligence at its highest.
This is love mixed with fear.
Real Love Intelligence would look different:
It would ask:
- “What kind of example am I setting for my child?”
- “Am I teaching them to win… or to win at all costs?”
- “Will this decision make them stronger, or just more dependent on shortcuts?”
Sometimes the hardest truth is this:
Doing something for your child is not always the same as doing the right thing for your child.
Love Intelligence (book at here https://asiatrainers.org/lqbook) at its highest level is not about giving your child the best school.
It is about giving your child:
- integrity
- resilience
- clarity
- and the ability to stand on their own
Even if it means they don’t get what others are chasing.
Because in the long run, A child who learns truth and strength will always go further than a child who is protected by shortcuts.
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