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Unlock the Secrets to Win Without Figthing

Unlock the Secrets to Winning Without Fighting! Discover the timeless wisdom of Sun Tzu’s Art of War decoded for modern leaders in Andy Ng’s transformative book, Win Without Fighting . ​ What You’ll Learn:   ✅ Achieve success with clarity, strategy, and alignment—not force. ​ ✅ Apply Sun Tzu’s 5 Elements of Victory to lead, influence, and resolve conflicts effortlessly. ​ ✅ Master 31 practical ways to win without fighting in business, leadership, and life.  ​ ✅ Lead with Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG) for authentic and lasting impact. ​ Why This Book? Andy Ng combines ancient wisdom with modern insights, offering actionable strategies to help you thrive in today’s fast-paced world. ​ Whether you’re a leader, entrepreneur, or changemaker, this book is your blueprint for success without struggle. ​ Ready to transform your leadership and life? Grab your copy now and start winning with peace, clarity, and purpose! Visit https://asiatrainers.org/wwfbook ​ 📩 For bulk...

How Andy uses Serve First Don't Sell in his Training Career

Andy Ng never built his training career on chasing money. Instead, he built it on one core principle: Serve first, don’t sell. This is the essence of being a SuperME — to put Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG) ahead of personal gain. ✨ With SuperME : Andy doesn’t just run another “motivational” course. He helps participants face their inner conflicts, reconnect with themselves, and walk away with tools they can use immediately. People feel seen, heard, and healed — the kind of impact that makes them bring friends and colleagues to his programs. The income follows naturally. ✨ With Yijing : Instead of teaching the I Ching as superstition, Andy reframes it as a decision-making compass for leaders. He shows corporate managers how to solve complex problems, predict patterns, and manage uncertainty with ancient wisdom. The result? Clients say, “Andy’s class saved us years of mistakes.” That’s impact that creates lasting partnerships. ✨ With Sun Tzu’s Art of War : Andy teaches leaders n...

How I Got 13 People to Share SuperME Unleashed in 13 Days

How I Got 13 People to Share SuperME Unleashed in 13 Days  When I first held SuperME Unleashed in my hands, I knew it wasn’t just another book. It was a mirror, a compass, and a gentle friend — all in one. I told myself: If this can change me, it can change others too. So I set a small but powerful challenge: 13 people in 13 days. Here’s how it worked: 1️⃣ Day 1–3 – I started with my closest circle. I gifted them the book and said, “Read just one chapter. If it moves you, share it with one person you love.” 2️⃣ Day 4–6 – I reached out to colleagues and clients. Instead of selling, I shared my own transformation story: how PLG (Purpose, Love, Gratitude) shifted my stress into strength. Stories touch hearts. 3️⃣ Day 7–10 – I went online. I posted one takeaway a day on Facebook/LinkedIn, always ending with, “If this speaks to you, pass the book forward.” 4️⃣ Day 11–13 – I followed up. Not pushing, but asking, “How did the book touch you?” Most were eager to talk. Many said, “I’ve alre...

SuperME Wealth

The connection between SuperME and Wealth  lies in aligning your financial mindset and actions with your inner truth, values, and purpose. ​ SuperME reframes wealth as a reflection of your inner state rather than a goal to chase. ​ Here's how one can be wealthy with SuperME: 1. Shift from Survival to Soul-Aligned Wealth ​ ·         SuperME Approach: Stop chasing money out of fear or scarcity. ​ Instead, align your financial decisions with your purpose, love, and gratitude. ​ ·         Outcome: When you work through your purpose and lead with authenticity, money flows naturally as a byproduct of your value and service. ​ 2. Discover Hidden Value Within ​ ·         SuperME Insight: Your unique gifts, life lessons, and emotional intelligence are your hidden currencies. ​ ·         Action: Share your authentic story, solve real p...

Depressed? Don't Vape. Turn to your SM

When people feel depressed, many turn to vaping or other quick fixes. It numbs for a while… but never heals. SuperME Unleashed offers a different path. Instead of clouding your pain, it clears it — with Purpose, Love & Gratitude (PLG). Purpose gives you direction when you feel lost. Love brings connection when you feel alone. Gratitude lifts your spirit when everything seems dark. Example:  Purpose: My purpose is not the exams or work stress, my purpose is to live Love: I love my health more than anything else Gratitude: Grateful for the chance to gain back myself  SuperME doesn’t just distract you from depression — it helps you rediscover the strength that was always inside you. ✨ Don’t vape away your life. Choose to breathe in hope, healing, and heart. Choose to return to your SuperME.

The Power of PLG in SuperME — How It Works

The Power of PLG in SuperME — How It Works At the heart of SuperME lies PLG: Purpose, Love, Gratitude. Think of it as an inner engine that powers your life from the inside out. 1. Purpose: Your North Star Purpose is not your job title, role, or achievements. It’s the WHY behind all you do. When you align to Purpose, confusion and fear lose their grip. You stop chasing approval and start creating impact. Example from the book : Andy realised his Purpose was “to harness potential” — whether as a trainer, father, or friend. With this clarity, every interaction became meaningful. 2. Love: Your Fuel Love here is not romance. It is care, concern, compassion, joy, and equanimity. Love removes judgment and replaces it with connection. Love allows you to serve without expectation, and lead without ego. Example: Vivian built the Pay Kindness Forward movement not to be noticed, but because her Love flowed naturally. That’s why it multiplied. 3. Gratitude: Your Multiplier Gratitude is not saying “...

Forward to the Book

Forward to Win Without Fighting book by Andy Ng When Andy Ng invited me to write the foreword for this book, I paused — not because I hesitated, but because I recognized the sacredness of what he was offering the world through these pages. Win Without Fighting with Sun Tzu Art of War is not merely a book on strategy; it is a blueprint for inner alignment, authentic leadership, and transformative peace in action . In a world obsessed with hustle and domination, Andy revives the forgotten power of clarity over chaos, wisdom over warfare, and purpose over pressure. As someone who champions the PLG (Purpose, Love, Gratitude) framework globally , I see in Andy’s work a powerful convergence: Purpose:  the Dao that aligns teams beyond KPIs. Love: the Yin energy that dissolves resistance. Gratitude: the calm anchor that transforms challenge into wisdom. Andy doesn’t just teach Sun Tzu. He lives it. And he refines it — integrating ancient Eastern principles, the Yijing, and the ...

The 2Cs as Oxygen to the Body

Care and concern are as essential to the human heart as oxygen is to the body — yet in today’s busy, transactional world, they’ve become rare commodities. Here’s why: Busyness over presence — People are so occupied with surviving, meeting deadlines, and chasing goals that they rarely slow down enough to truly see another person. Fear of vulnerability — Showing care means opening ourselves to possible rejection or misunderstanding, so many choose to stay guarded. Conditional relationships — Much of modern interaction is built on “what you can do for me,” instead of “who you are to me.” How SuperME Unleashed changes this reality This book isn’t just theory — it’s a mirror and a guide. Through stories, reflective prompts, and the PLG (Purpose, Love, Gratitude) framework, it gently dismantles the walls we’ve built. The magic of the book lies in how it doesn’t just tell you to care — it walks with you through small, doable actions that open the heart. And because the exercises are rooted in...

Living in a World of Transactional Love

When someone tells you they haven’t felt unconditional love in years, what they’re really saying is that they’ve been living in a world of transactions — love that comes with strings, acceptance that depends on performance, worthiness tied to results. That’s exactly why SuperME Unleashed feels so magical to those who read it. From the very first pages, the book doesn’t demand you become anything before you’re worthy. It invites you, with warmth and zero judgement, to remember who you already are — someone enough, lovable, and whole. Dr. Vivian Passion Koh’s words and reflections carry the rare quality of presence — you feel like someone is sitting with you, listening deeply, and holding space for your truth. Through Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG), she guides you to notice the quiet ways you’ve already been loved by life — and to start loving yourself in that same unconditional way. Readers have said the book feels like “having a conversation with someone who truly sees you...

Resisting SuperME, embracing Survival-Me

P eople often resist SuperME — not because they don’t need it, but because they fear what it will ask them to confront. For many, the Survival-Me identity has been their armor for years. It’s built from habits of self-protection: chasing approval, performing for acceptance, hiding vulnerabilities. Even when this armor feels heavy and suffocating, it still feels “safe” because it’s familiar. The thought of putting it down — of being truly seen — can be terrifying. Some also resist because they misunderstand SuperME. They think it’s about being perfect or “superhuman,” when in fact it’s the opposite: it’s about acceptance , not performance; presence , not pretense. That’s where SuperME Unleashed becomes more than just a book — it’s often the bridge to a person’s first “a-ha” moment . Because the book doesn’t demand instant change or overwhelm you with rules — it gently holds up a mirror. Through real stories, reflection prompts, and the PLG (Purpose, Love, Gratitude) framework, it ...

The Journey from Survival-Me to SuperME

The journey from Survival-Me to SuperME is deeply personal — and while the timeline is different for each person, the transformation often begins the very moment you decide to return to yourself. 1. Awakening – The First Glimpse You start noticing that something feels “off.” Maybe your days feel like a checklist, not a life. You’re constantly chasing validation, fearing mistakes, or hiding your truth. Success feels hollow. In Survival-Me, your energy goes into appearing okay rather than being okay. For some, this awakening happens in a single conversation or after reading just one chapter of SuperME Unleashed. For others, it comes gradually — like sunlight creeping into a dark room. 2. Reflection – Meeting Yourself Honestly Here, you face the truth you’ve been avoiding. You see your masks. You notice your fears. You recognize the emotional “scripts” you’ve been repeating for years. This stage can be confronting, but it’s also where your Super Mirror begins to work — showing you not o...

Singapore at 60: A SuperME Gift for Every Singaporean

Singapore at 60: A SuperME Gift for Every Singaporean In 1965, Singapore began its journey with Purpose — a vision of survival, unity, and progress. Today, at 60, we stand as a thriving nation… but beneath the skyline and the success, many Singaporeans carry stress, disconnection, and uncertainty about the future. What better gift for our nation than for every Singaporean to return to their SuperME? SuperME is about living each day with: ✨ Purpose — like our pioneers, knowing why we do what we do, and doing it with conviction. 💖 Love — building bonds that go beyond transactions, caring for our people and our home. 🙏 Gratitude — remembering the blessings we have, and passing them forward to future generations. If every Singaporean embraced their SuperME, our country would not only be rich in GDP but rich in heart — a nation where people lift each other up, innovate with empathy, and stand resilient through challenges. For Singapore’s 60th, let’s give ourselves the gift of clarity, c...

The Book That Brings Back to YOU

SuperME Unleashed — The Book That Brings You Back to YOU  In a world that’s loud, rushed, and demanding, it’s easy to lose sight of who you truly are. SuperME Unleashed by Dr. Vivian Passion Koh, with contributions from Andy Ng, is your guide back home — to the strongest, clearest, and most loving version of yourself. Inside these pages, you will discover: ✨ Purpose — the unshakable compass that keeps you on track even in uncertainty. 💖 Love — not just romance, but deep care for yourself and others. 🙏 Gratitude — the key that turns even struggles into stepping stones. This is not just a book — it’s a mirror to see the truth of who you are, a compass to navigate life’s storms, and a map to a life of meaning, peace, and impact. Early readers say it’s “life-changing”, “healing”, and “the book I didn’t know I needed.” Read it slowly. Let it sink in. And watch how your relationships, work, and inner world transform. 💡 The best investment you can make is returning to your SuperME. 📦 ...

What Can This Framework Do For You?

What Can This Framework Do For You?  The SuperME framework, developed through the collaboration of Dr. Vivian Passion Koh and Andy Ng, focuses on empowering individuals to unlock their full potential.  It is built on the principles of Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG) and aims to inspire transformative identity shifts, emotional resilience, and authentic living.   Their collaboration includes: 1. Framework Integration: Dr. Vivian provides mentorship using her Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG) framework, while Andy applies his expertise in business consultancy, HR, and education to bring the SuperME concept to life.  2. Workshops and Training: Andy facilitates workshops and training sessions to help individuals apply the SuperME principles in their lives, while Dr. Vivian offers guidance to inspire transformative identity shifts.  3. Shared Vision: They work together to help individuals build emotional resilience, stay true to their core identity, an...

PLG for Corporate Leaders, Government Officials and Politicians

PLG Purpose Love Gratitude was created by Dr Vivian Passion Koh in 2020 and has been used extensively in many situations.  Today let's look at how PLG is tailored for corporate leaders, government officials, and politicians:  1. Self (Leadership Integrity) CEO: After a poor quarterly result, the CEO shares a personal reflection with staff. Purpose: “Our vision remains unchanged—we’re here to innovate for long-term sustainability.” Love: Admits mistakes, invites diverse views, and shows vulnerability in strength. Gratitude: Thanks the team for staying resilient and committed through uncertainty. 2. Relationships (Cross-Agency or Team Collaboration) Govt Director: Working with another ministry on a complex social issue. Purpose: “We are here to serve the people, not defend departments.” Love: Listens to all stakeholders, includes community voices in policy-making. Gratitude: Publicly acknowledges the contributions of every agency and frontliner. 3. Work (Organizational Cult...

Test on Are You Living as SuperME or Stuck in Survival-Me?

  ‘Am I Living as my SuperMe… or stuck in my Survival-Me?’ For each statements, score from 1 to 5. (1 = Not true at all, 5 = Very true) Survival-Me Statements I often feel like I’m running on empty — busy, but unfulfilled. I make choices based on fear — fear of losing out, fear of what others think, fear of making mistakes. I feel disconnected from what truly matters to me. I say “yes” too often, even when I mean “no,” just to keep the peace or avoid conflict. I measure my worth by achievements, titles, or approval. Add up your score. SuperMe Statements I wake up with a sense of purpose and clarity about who I am becoming. I feel emotionally grounded and can return to peace quickly, even during chaos. I express love freely — to my work, people around me, and myself. I am deeply grateful, not just when things go well, but even in life’s detours. I make decisions from alignment, not pressure Add this score too. Reflect Now, look at both s...

How Purpose, Love and Gratitude Shows up in Sun Tzu

In The Art of War , Sun Tzu never directly uses the words “Purpose, Love, Gratitude” — those are the SuperME PLG language — but the essence of these principles runs deep in his strategy. Here’s how Purpose, Love, Gratitude show up in Sun Tzu’s thinking: 1. Purpose (志 – Will / Clear Direction) Sun Tzu starts by stressing the importance of the Dao (道) — the moral purpose or guiding principle that aligns the ruler, generals, and soldiers. “The Dao causes the people to be in complete accord with their ruler, so they will follow him regardless of their lives, undismayed by any danger.” ( Chapter 1: Laying Plans ) This is exactly Purpose in PLG — a clear “why” that inspires action beyond personal gain. Without a unifying purpose, armies (or teams) scatter in fear or self-interest. Modern SuperME Application: Leaders who anchor their actions in a higher purpose earn loyalty, unity, and resilience from their teams. 2. Love (仁 – Humanity / Care for People) Sun Tzu emphasize...

Fight to Win or Win to Fight

“The greatest victory is that which requires no battle.”   — Sun Tzu, The Art of War Most people fight to feel powerful. But does fighting really work? Fighting drains energy and damages relationships. Real power lies in clarity, calm, and timing. Think of one ongoing conflict. What happens if you stop pushing and start observing?   What if the secret to winning isn't fighting harder — but not fighting at all ? What if your best victories were won long before the struggle began ?   In a world obsessed with hustle, competition, and pushing through resistance, Sun Tzu’s message cuts like a sword through fog: “ Win first. Then go to battle .” The Two Paths: Fight to Win vs. Win to Fight Most people, when faced with a challenge, do one thing: fight. They argue harder. Send longer emails. Pull rank. Offer ultimatums. They go into battle hoping to win. But Sun Tzu invites us to reverse this logic. His approach is: Win to fight, not fight to win. This mea...

Power Lies Not in Control but in Alignment with PLG

What if your power lies not in control, but in alignment? The SuperME framework grounds you in inner power: PLG. You lead better when you lead from within. Sun Tzu taught the world how to win. But how do we win not just efficiently, but authentically? • How do we lead with strength — without dominance? • Influence others — without manipulation? • Achieve results — without betraying ourselves? That’s where the SuperME comes in. The SuperME is not a superhero identity. It’s the most conscious, empowered, and heart-centered version of you. It’s who you are when you're aligned with your highest values, your clearest purpose, and your deepest wisdom. At the heart of the SuperME is a simple but profound framework: Purpose, Love, and Gratitude — PLG, more at https://asiatrainers.org/smubook 

I Paused Not Because I Hesitated but See the Sacredness of this

Forward of Win Without Fighting with Sun Tzu Art of War Dr Vivian Passion Koh When Andy Ng invited me to write the foreword for this book, I paused — not because I hesitated, but because I recognized the sacredness of what he was offering the world through these pages. 'Win Without Fighting with Sun Tzu Art of War' is not merely a book on strategy; it is a blueprint for inner alignment, authentic leadership, and transformative peace in action. In a world obsessed with hustle and domination, Andy revives the forgotten power of clarity over chaos, wisdom over warfare, and purpose over pressure. As someone who champions the PLG (Purpose, Love, Gratitude) framework globally, I see in Andy’s work a powerful convergence: Purpose:  the Dao that aligns teams beyond KPIs. Love: the Yin energy that dissolves resistance. Gratitude: the calm anchor that transforms challenge into wisdom. Andy doesn’t just teach Sun Tzu. He lives it. And he refines it — integrating ancient Eastern principles...