“Buy Now Pay Later” is convenient, trendy, and even addictive. But for many, it’s the beginning of: Hidden debt Mental burden Delayed regret The trap? It feels light now. But it gets heavier with time. And by the time you feel it — you’re already stuck. How the Survival-Me Falls for BNPL The Survival-Me says: “I deserve this now.” “Everyone else is doing it.” “I’ll figure it out later.” It acts from: Impulse Short-term pleasure Avoidance of discomfort And in doing so… it creates future stress in exchange for temporary satisfaction . But the SuperME Does Something Very Different: 1. Purpose over Pleasure “Do I need this… or am I filling a void?” A SuperME doesn’t spend just to feel good — It spends to align with who they’re becoming. Love Your Future Self “If I truly love myself, would I burden myself later for a quick fix now?” SuperME loves with long-term compassion — It doesn’t sabotage tomorrow just to soothe today. Gratitu...
by Andy Ng at www.asiatrainers.com (Sales & Management Training) Tel: 65-93672286 Email: andythecoach@gmail.com