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爱的智慧最高境界:做个好人

爱的智慧最高境界:做个好人

我们一生都在学习:

怎样更聪明,
怎样赚更多钱,
怎样成功。

但走到最后,爱的智慧(LQ)其实很简单:

心存善,行动善,结果自然向善。

做好人(Be Good)——心里有善意。
做好事(Do Good)——把善意变成行动。
得善果(Good Returns)——善良累积信任、人缘、机会与福气。

做好事,不代表马上有好报。

人生不是自动贩卖机,投下一份善,就马上掉下一份回报。

但是长期而言:

善良创造信任,
信任创造关系,
关系创造机会,
机会创造财富。

这就是爱的智慧:

Care 关爱——心存善。
Courage 勇气——敢行善。
Connection 连接——广结善缘。

所以,人生不必太复杂。

做好人,做好事,结善缘。

你给世界什么,往往决定世界最终给你什么。

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