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The Super Legacy that has no Dollars and Cents

What is the Super Legacy ? The Super Legacy is the lasting impact you create by living as your authentic self—your SuperME .  It’s about inspiring others, creating ripples of transformation, and contributing to a better world.  Steps to Create a Super Legacy  1. Awaken Your SuperME: Discover your authentic self through reflection and alignment using tools like the Super Mirror and PLG Compass . 2. Spark the Ripple Effect : Inspire others naturally by living your truth and modeling values for your inner circle, community, and society.  3. Build the Super Movement : Share your transformation through initiatives, stories, or communities that embody Purpose, Love, and Gratitude ( PLG ).  4. Lead Authentically: Empower others with presence, grace, and vulnerability using the SuperME Leadership Code .  5. Focus on Service: Create impact first, and let income follow naturally by solving real problems and building value ecosystems.  6. Extend You...

5 Things You Are Told that Make You a Survival-Me

Here are the 5 most common things people are told — often by society, family, or even themselves — that subtly program them into being a Survival-Me instead of a SuperME : 1. “Be realistic. Don’t aim too high.” This plants the seed of limitation . It teaches you to play small, avoid risk, and settle for less than your truth. Survival-Me thinks: “Stay safe, don’t dream too big.” 2. “Don’t be so emotional.” This shames authentic feeling . It tells you to suppress your emotions, wear a mask, and be acceptable — not real. Survival-Me thinks: “If I show my heart, I’ll be judged.” 3. “What matters most is achievement.” This drives the constant need to prove . You start measuring your worth by KPIs, salary, or status — not by who you truly are. Survival-Me thinks: “If I don’t perform, I’m not enough.” 4. “You’re on your own. No one’s going to save you.” This breeds isolation and mistrust. You stop asking for help. You carry everything alone. You wear pride as armour. Survival-Me t...

Top 13 Career & Business Benefits when you are a SuperME

Top 13 Career & Business Benefits when you are a SuperME 1. Clarity of Purpose You no longer drift or chase trends — you act with laser focus aligned to your true mission. 2. Magnetic Leadership People are drawn to your presence. You lead not by title, but by trust, heart and vision. 3. Resilience in Challenges You bounce forward — not just back. Obstacles refine you, not define you. 4. Increased Influence Your words carry weight. Why? Because you speak from authenticity, not performance. 5. Deeper Relationships Clients, teams, partners — they feel safe and seen around you. This builds loyalty and longevity. 6. Stronger Decision-Making You choose not from fear or pressure, but from inner alignment and long-term impact. 7. Creative Innovation Love opens your imagination. You solve problems in fresh, inspired, and intuitive ways. 8. Stress Becomes Strength Gratitude transforms pressure into presence. You work lighter — yet achieve more. 9. Sustainable Success No more burnout cycles. ...

Awaken the Laugher Within with SuperME

Can a SuperME Do Laughter Therapy Well? Yes — and even better than most. Because laughter that heals must come from a place of authenticity , presence , and love — all core traits of a SuperME. A SuperME doesn’t laugh to impress. They laugh to connect, to liberate, and to awaken the inner child in others. Their laughter is not forced — it’s a natural overflow of Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG). How to Be a SuperME Laughter Therapy Coach 1. Anchor in Purpose Know why you're doing this. “I’m here to bring people back to joy — not just in the moment, but in their being.” 2. Laugh with Love, not for approval Don’t fake it. Laugh with compassion. Let your laughter be an invitation, not a performance. 3. Be Grateful for Every Giggle Celebrate the silent smiles. Honour the tears that follow the laughter. Your gratitude will create a safe space for others to open up. 4. Use Your Pain to Birth Joy SuperMEs know: the deepest laughter often comes from the deepest wounds. Transform your...

I bring out the strategist in each participant

Sun Zi Bing Fa (Art of War) is from Yijing, because Win Without Fighting is what it advocates. I, Andy Ng, have been teaching courses on The Art of War since 2009. In August 2025 alone, I conducted two one-day classes on August 1 and 11. The attendees included many non-Chinese individuals, mostly from the government sector.  I incorporate Yijing elements into my teaching, and I focus on applications in day-to-day life Because true strategy is not about defeating others—it’s about mastering the self, aligning with the unseen forces, and moving with Heaven’s timing. In all my Sun Zi Bing Fa programs, I don’t just teach tactics —I train inner generals . I bring out the strategist in each participant. Whether you’re a policymaker, a business leader, or a frontline officer, you’ll walk away with clarity, conviction, and calm power. Through the lens of Yijing , I help people decode the invisible . Each of the 13 chapters in Sun Zi’s work reveals timeless wisdom that can be applied not...

The Course That People Truly Long For

I n today’s noisy world filled with quick fixes and empty promises, what people truly long for is real transformation —the kind that shifts your identity , not just your habits. AndyTheCoach doesn’t teach for applause. He trains to awaken the SuperME in every person—to ignite the part of you that’s been waiting for permission to rise. We’re not here to impress you for a day. We’re here to change your life forever . If you’re tired of going for trainings that feel good for a few hours and then disappear from your memory by the next week… Then you’re ready for what Andy delivers: 💎 Sustainable breakthroughs, not flash-in-the-pan hype 🔥 Instant shifts in energy, clarity, and action—right inside the class 💖 A deep imprint that echoes in your decisions, relationships, and inner compass—months and years after Upcoming Life-Shifting Courses by AndyTheCoach: 1. SuperME Unleashed Awaken your authentic self , break the chains of "Survival-Me", and rise to your truest ...

What Happens When You Become a SuperME

Bazi and Ziwei Doushu are NOT SuperME SuperME is about us being the BE, and with that we can DO and HAVE what we want. So Bazi and Ziwei DouShu are destinies, ultimately we can still decide what life we want, when we are SuperME.  SuperME is about us BE-ing our true self — aligned with Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG). From that state of being, we naturally do the right things, and eventually have what truly matters. This is the BE → DO → HAVE model — the exact opposite of the flawed modern chase of “Have more so I can do more and then be happy.” In Contrast: Bazi and Zi Wei Dou Shu They show your 命 (Ming): tendencies, strengths, timing, karmic lessons. They describe your patterns, but not your power. They are destiny maps, but not your final destination. The Key Linkage: Framework Core Message                                              ...

Bazi and Ziwei Doushu: Can You STILL Change Your Life?

You're touching on one of the most profound paradoxes in Chinese metaphysics — the tension between "destiny is fixed" (命定论) and "we can rise above destiny" (人定胜天). Let’s unpack it systematically: 1. Ziwei Doushu & Bazi as Fixed at Birth Yes, both 紫微斗数 (Zi Wei Dou Shu) and 八字 (Bazi) are destiny charts based on one's birth time and date. They describe: 命 (Ming): your blueprint — talents, luck cycles, obstacles, blessings. 运 (Yun): the unfolding of your life across time (decade/year/month luck). These charts are "derived from the Yijing cosmology", using Yin-Yang, Five Elements, Heavenly Stems and Earthly Branches — just like the 64 Hexagrams and Bagua. They describe patterns, not predictions. 2. 人定胜天:Conviction Conquers Destiny The phrase “人定胜天” is a bold statement from Yijing philosophy: It means "what you decide with conviction can overcome what heaven has assigned." It places human will, awareness, and virtue above fatalism. It comes...

How to Make People Listen to You even when You Speak Badly

Why People Listen to Those They Like and Respect Let’s face it: We don’t follow people just because they’re right . We follow people because they make us feel safe , seen , and valued . And that’s exactly what a SuperME does — without trying to be popular, people-pleasing, or performative. How SuperME Earns Respect (Without Trying to Impress) They Lead with Purpose, Not Performance A SuperME doesn’t act to win approval — they act to honour their purpose . They say what needs to be said, even when it’s uncomfortable — but they say it with heart. That quiet clarity earns respect. “You don’t just talk. You live it.” They Love without Needing to Be Loved Back SuperMEs show care, presence, and empathy — without expectation. People feel safe around them, because there’s no agenda. That safety builds deep connection. You feel seen — and that changes everything. They Express Gratitude Freely and Authentically SuperMEs appreciate people — even in their flaws....

The Next Big Move is not about AI

  Andy is Ready for the Next Big Move — How About You? The next big move is not about faster tech, louder voices, or more data. It’s about something deeper — something we’ve forgotten in the rush: 1. Connection. On a human level. In a world flooded with AI , gadgets, and algorithms , people are more informed, yet more isolated. We scroll, swipe, and reply — but still feel unseen. Unheard. Unfelt. Andy Ng — AndyTheCoach — is ready. Because he knows: The real upgrade we need is not in software — but in Self . And that’s where SuperME enters. SuperME is not a theory. It’s a movement of returning to who we truly are: humans who lead with Purpose , relate with Love, and live in Gratitude . Andy has trained thousands, spoken across continents, and built programs that work — but today, his biggest move is to bring people back to themselves. Back to eye contact. Back to heart-centered leadership . Back to healing teams, families, and organisations from within. Are You Ready? You can ke...

Identifying Your SuperME

Identifying your SuperME involves reconnecting with your truest self—the version of you that exists beyond fear, labels, and societal expectations.  Here’s how you can identify your SuperME: 1. Understand What SuperME Is  SuperME is not a title, achievement, or role.  It’s your soul, your truest self, and your empowered self.  It’s the version of you that: • Leads with Purpose, Love, and Gratitude.  • Lives aligned with truth and serves with intention.  • Transforms wounds into wisdom and shines fully.  2. Recognize What Is NOT SuperME  SuperME is not active when you are: • Survival-Me : Driven by fear, avoiding discomfort, and clinging to safety.  • Protector-Me : Overthinking, building walls, and shielding yourself from vulnerability.  • Small-Me : Shrinking in self-worth, avoiding leadership, and fearing judgment.  These states are often reactions to external pressures, past trauma, or societal conditioning.  3....

How Can SuperME Earn Super Money?

How Can SuperME Earn Super Money? Super Money is not just wealth — it’s aligned abundance . It flows not from desperation, but from Purpose , Love , and Gratitude . A Survival-Me chases income. A Protector-Me saves out of fear. But a SuperME ? They attract wealth because they radiate value . The SuperME Money Flow: Purpose earns Trust When your work aligns with your deeper calling, people trust you. And trust opens doors to opportunities, collaborations, and loyal clients . Love builds Relationships You don’t just sell — you serve . You don’t manipulate — you listen . This creates lifetime value, not one-time transactions. Gratitude multiplies Wealth You bless every dollar earned. You give generously, receive openly. Your energy attracts more — not just money, but support, ideas, and unexpected gifts . SuperME and Passive Income? Passive income that exceeds your active expenses starts with one shift: “Let your value work harder than your time .” Exa...

SuperME: The Human Soul in the Age of AI and Sustainability

  SuperME : The Human Soul in the Age of AI and Sustainability   In a world racing toward AI efficiency and sustainable survival, we must not lose sight of the one thing that holds it all together—our humanity. SuperME reminds us: ✅ Sustainability begins from within — when we live with Purpose, we no longer consume mindlessly. ✅ AI without Love is just logic; SuperME adds heart to technology. ✅ Gratitude anchors us in humility—so we innovate not for greed, but for collective uplift . SuperME ensures we build a future that’s not only smart and green, but deeply human. It’s not about competing with machines or saving the Earth—it’s about coming home to ourselves, and from there, shaping a world worth living in. Be the SuperME . Be the change. Be the legacy.

How to Be a Ripple Without Doing Anything

  What is the Ripple Effect ? Are you a Ripple ? You don't to do anything special or extra, you just BE your SuperME , live as a SuperME and you are already a Ripple! The Ripple Effect, as described in the book SuperME Unleashed , is the transformative impact that begins with one person choosing to live authentically as their SuperME. ​ It emphasizes that personal alignment and healing naturally extend outward, influencing others and creating waves of positive change across relationships, communities, and society. ​ Key Components of the Ripple Effect: 1. Self: The initial shift starts within. ​When you align with Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG), you inspire others through your authenticity and energy. ​ 2. Inner Circle : Your closest relationships—family, friends, and colleagues—are impacted by your values and actions, often without direct effort. ​ 3. Community : Your alignment influences your workplace, social circles, and environment, fostering connection and collaboratio...

Using YouTube Premium with no ads is very much like how a SuperME operates in life

I have been using YouTube Premium for about 8 years now.  Many of my contents are from YouTube, the world's no. 2 website after Google.  Using YouTube Premium with no ads is very much like how a SuperME operates in life 1. SuperME Lives with Purpose — Not Distraction Ads are like the world’s noise: constant interruptions pulling you off track. SuperME, like YouTube Premium, says: “I know what I came here for.” “I choose what enters my space.” A SuperME lives with intention, not reaction. 2. SuperME Removes Unnecessary Noise Most people tolerate mental clutter — doubt, judgment, social comparison. But SuperME clears the inner screen. Just like Premium removes ads, SuperME clears: Ego noise (trying to impress) Fear filters (what will people think?) Old programming (I’m not good enough) And creates space for truth, presence, and flow. 3. SuperME Invests in Self-Worth YouTube Premium costs a little — but you pay for a better experience. SuperME lives the same way: They “invest” in...

What People Truly Want in Trainings

Trainings conducted by SuperMEs are what people truly want — even if they don’t know it yet — because they don’t just inform minds, they ignite hearts and restore humanity in the workplace. Here’s why: 1. SuperME Trainings Create Emotional Safety People don’t learn when they feel judged. They open up when they feel seen, heard, and valued. A SuperME trainer doesn't perform. They connect. They begin with presence, not PowerPoint. They allow silence, not just slides. “I felt like I could finally breathe in a training.” — Participant, Government Agency 2. SuperME Trainings Realign People with Their Inner Compass Most trainings teach skills. SuperME trainings awaken Purpose. When people remember their why, they stop dragging themselves to work they stop blaming others they start showing up from within That’s why SuperME sessions often leave participants saying: “I came for work. I found myself.” 3. SuperME Trainings Are Rooted in Love, Not Ego SuperMEs don’t stand on stage to impress. ...

Why Vulnerability is Good

What Is Vulnerability in the SuperME Context? Vulnerability is the courage to be seen as you are — not as who you think you should be. It’s: Speaking the truth even when your voice shakes Saying “ I don’t know ” when the room expects answers Showing emotion , asking for help , admitting fear Standing firm in purpose , not performance A SuperME doesn’t hide behind masks like the Protector-Me or Survival-Me . Instead, the SuperME says: “This is me — in truth , in growth, in love.” Why SuperME Is Not Afraid to Be Vulnerable Because vulnerability is a function of Purpose , Love , and Gratitude : ✔ Purpose gives you the why: “ I’m not here to impress — I’m here to impact .” ✔ Love gives you the safety: “ I am worthy , even in my imperfections .” ✔ Gratitude gives you the perspective: “Every challenge, every stumble, has shaped who I am today.” The SuperME Difference A Survival-Me fears vulnerability — it looks like weakness . A Protector-Me hides vulnerability — it looks unsafe . A Sup...

How to Touch Hearts with SuperME

How AndyTheCoach Touches Hearts with SuperME In a world where corporate training often feels transactional and templated, Andy Ng — also known as AndyTheCoach — brings something rare, needed, and unforgettable: A training experience that speaks not just to the mind, but to the heart. At the core of Andy’s signature programs lies a transformational force: SuperME — powered by Purpose, Love, and Gratitude ( PLG ). 1. He Aligns Strategy with Purpose Corporate leaders often chase KPIs , not knowing they’re off-purpose. Andy opens his sessions with one simple but disarming question: “Why do you do what you do — beyond the paycheck?” Suddenly, executives pause. They remember their why. And in that moment, Andy realigns performance with personal clarity. This is not theory. It’s activation. 2. He Connects Through Love in Leadership Andy doesn’t preach — he listens. He doesn’t impress — he connects. Whether he’s speaking to a team of engineers or C-suite executives , Andy brings a presence ...