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情义,父母的爱和人间共鸣

 

为什么我要推广《给阿嬷的情书》?

很多人问我:

“你是一名现代领导与管理培训师,为什么一直推荐潮洲《给给阿嬷的情书》?”

其实,我不是在推广一部电影。

我是在推广中华文化中最珍贵、却越来越稀缺的价值观。

《给阿嬷的情书》让我看见三种我们几乎遗忘的美德。

第一,是情义,而不仅仅是爱情。

电影里,兰芝帮助木生,甚至在木生去世后,默默替他写信、寄钱给淑柔近二十年。

最难得的是,兰芝并没有爱上木生。

他们之间不是爱情,而是超越爱情的情义

今天,我们常把男女关系理解成爱情,却忘了人与人之间还可以有纯粹的信任、责任与情义。

第二,是父母真正的爱。

谢来顺没有替女儿安排人生,也没有什么大道理。

他做的一件事,就是相信女儿,支持女儿,让她勇敢走自己的路。

真正的父爱,不是替孩子安排一切,

而是给他们自由成长的勇气。

第三,是人性的共鸣

很多电影让我们笑,却很快忘记笑什么。

很多电影让我们哭,却不知道为什么哭。

《给阿嬷的情书》却不同。

我们知道自己为什么流泪。

不是为了剧情。

而是因为电影让我们看见了自己。

看见自己曾经拥有的善良、

曾经相信的情义、

曾经渴望却渐渐遗忘的爱。

这就是为什么《阿嬷的情书》能够感动千万观众。

它讲的不是过去。它讲的是今天的我们。

因此,我希望把这部电影的精神带进我的课程。

不是为了推广电影,而是为了传承三种最珍贵的中华价值:

情义。成全。共鸣。

我相信,在AI越来越聪明的时代,真正值得传承的,不是更多知识,而是这些让我们真正成为人的价值。

这也是《爱的智慧》一直想传播的核心:

关爱、勇气、连接。

因为真正能够改变世界的,从来不是科技,而是人心。

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