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3 Reasons Why You Should NOT Watch Dear You

You probably shouldn't watch Dear You...

1. Don't watch it if you don't want to cry.

Not because the movie is sad.

But because it reminds you of the people you have forgotten.

Your parents. Your spouse.Your old friends.

The people who quietly loved you.

You may leave the cinema with tears—and a grateful heart.

2. Don't watch it if you believe money is the most important thing in life.

Xiao Wei went looking for money.

Instead, he found Qing Yi (情义).

The movie quietly reminds us that trust, loyalty and love often create more lasting wealth than money ever can.

It may change what you think success really means.

3. Don't watch it if you're comfortable living without Love Intelligence.

Dear You isn't just a movie.

It's a mirror.  It asks uncomfortable questions.

  • Have you appreciated the people around you?
  • Have you expressed your love?
  • Have you lived with Care, Courage and Connection?

If not, the movie may change you.

So perhaps you really shouldn't watch Dear You...

Unless you are ready to rediscover what it means to be human.

Unless you are ready to believe in Truth, Goodness and Beauty again.

Unless you are ready to live with Qing Yi.

Because after watching Dear You,

you may never look at your family, your relationships, or your own life, the same way again.

Details of Love Intelligence at here https://asiatrainers.org/lqbook

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