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Xiao Wei: The Grandson Who Only Wanted Money

The Character We Dislike at First... But Eventually See in Ourselves

Dear You begins with Xiao Wei. 

And in many ways, the movie ends with him.

At the beginning, Xiao Wei has only one goal:

Money.

He travels to Thailand hoping to find his wealthy grandfather and claim an inheritance.

He shows little interest in his grandmother, Shurou. Her past means nothing to him. Her feelings matter even less.

Many viewers may even dislike him.

But perhaps that is exactly why he is one of the most important characters in the movie.

Because Xiao Wei represents many of us.

  • We are busy chasing success.
  • We pursue wealth.
  • We focus on what we can gain.

Yet we often overlook the people who quietly love us.

As Xiao Wei uncovers the truth about Mu Sheng, Nanzhi and Shurou, something begins to change.

He came looking for money. 

Instead, he found Qing Yi 情义

He discovered that the greatest inheritance is not wealth.

It is character. 

Not money. But love.

Not possessions. But people.

That is the brilliance of Dear You.

The movie begins with a young man searching for money.

It ends with a young man discovering what truly matters.

This is also the journey of Love Intelligence (LQ).

Many of us begin life asking,

"How can I earn more?"

Love Intelligence teaches us to ask a better question:

"How can I become a person worthy of trust, respect and love?"

When we find the answer,

we discover what Xiao Wei discovered.

The greatest wealth in life is not money.

It is Qing Yi.  It is Love Intellligence, discover at here https://asiatrainers.org/lqbook

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