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我怎样才能赚更多的钱?

小伟:眼里只有金钱的孙子

我们一开始不喜欢他,后来却在他身上看见了自己

《给阿嬷的情书》的故事,从小伟开始。也可以说,最后又回到了小伟。

故事一开始,小伟只有一个目标:赚钱。

他来到泰国,希望找到传说中富有的祖父,得到一笔遗产。

他并不关心阿嬷淑柔过去经历了什么。也不太在乎她的感受。

因此,很多观众一开始并不喜欢他。

但也正因为如此,小伟成为电影里最重要的人物之一。

因为,

小伟就是今天的我们。

我们努力追求成功。努力赚钱。努力得到更多。却常常忽略了,那些一直默默爱着我们的人。

随着小伟一步步了解木生、南枝和淑柔的故事,他的心开始改变。

他来到泰国寻找金钱。最后找到的,却是情义

他终于明白,人生最大的遗产,不是财富。而是品格。

不是金钱。而是爱。

不是拥有多少东西。而是留下多少真情。

这也是《给阿嬷的情书》最精彩的地方。

电影从一个年轻人寻找金钱开始,

却以一个年轻人找到人生真正价值结束。

这,也是《爱的智慧》(Love Intelligence LQ)的旅程。

很多人一生都在问:

“我怎样才能赚更多的钱?”

《爱的智慧》教我们问一个更重要的问题:

“我怎样才能成为一个值得别人信任、尊敬和深爱的人?”

当我们找到这个答案,也就找到了小伟最后找到的答案。

人生最大的财富,不是金钱。

而是情义。

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