Tik Tok Says I'm among the Top 10% But I Am Not Happy

Most people are chasing views.

TikTok told me I’m in the top 10% of creators.

Why?

Because some of my videos crossed 300 views.

Sounds impressive… until you realise:
300 views doesn’t pay your bills.

So I looked deeper.

In the last 4 months:
I grew my LinkedIn from 700 to 2,780 connections
That’s about 100 new connections every week.

In 2025 alone:
I wrote and sold 6 books:
• Love Intelligence
• 爱的智慧
• Win Without Fighting with Sun Tzu Art of War
• Sun Tzu Sales Secrets
• Yijing Explained (2025 Edition)
• SuperME Unleashed (co-author)

And now I’m building:
• A course using 10 popular songs to teach decision-making
• A one-day Ethics & Leadership program
• A subconscious mind course for performance and clarity

Then it hit me:

In the AI era, content is everywhere.

But very few people can do 3 things well:

Turn content into trust
Turn trust into influence
Turn influence into revenue

That is the real game.

This is what I call Love Intelligence (LQ).

Not romance.

But the ability to:
build trust, make decisions, and create value: without losing your humanity.

So yes, maybe I am in the top 10%.

But not because of views.

Because I am building something that compounds.

If you are a leader, trainer, or professional trying to stay relevant in the AI era:

Don’t just chase visibility.

Build trust.

And learn how to convert that trust into real value.

If this resonates, connect with me or drop me a message.

Let’s build something real.

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