Why Love Intelligence? What has SuperME got to Do with It?

Andy wrote Love Intelligence because he saw a growing problem in modern success culture.

For decades, people were taught to focus on IQ (intelligence) and EQ (emotional intelligence) to succeed. Later, businesses became obsessed with KPIs, productivity, and performance metrics. Many people became efficient and successful, but at the same time, they also became stressed, disconnected, and transactional in their relationships.

Andy observed something worrying:

People were becoming high-performing, but less human.

In the AI era, this risk becomes even greater. Machines can already process information faster than humans. If people only rely on logic, speed, and data, they may slowly start behaving like humanoids: efficient but lacking warmth, trust, and meaning.

That is why Andy introduced the idea of Love Intelligence (LQ): the ability to combine care, courage, and connection to create trust, cooperation, and long-term value.

Yes, the idea is related to the book SuperME Unleashed, which Andy co-authored with Vivian Passion Koh.

SuperME Unleashed focuses on helping people move from a survival mindset (“Survival-Me”) to a higher version of themselves (“SuperME”) through awareness, courage, and personal transformation.

Love Intelligence builds on that foundation.

If SuperME is about becoming a better and more conscious version of yourself,
then Love Intelligence is about how that better self interacts with others and the world.

In simple terms:

SuperME Unleashed → Inner transformation
Love Intelligence → Outer expression through care, courage, and connection

Together, they form a complete idea:

Become your higher self, then lead and live with love. ❤️

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