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顺时有序: 成功的秘诀

 

“顺时有序”其实是一套非常实用的人生与管理哲学,而且和《易经》的核心思想非常接近。

我会把它解释成四个字:

顺时:知道什么时候做。
有序:知道先做什么、后做什么。

很多人的问题,不是做错事情,而是对的事情,在错的时间做;重要的事情,用错了次序做。

一、什么叫“顺时”?

《易经》最重要的思想之一就是“时”。

同一件事情,在不同时间做,结果可以完全不同。

种子是好的,土地也是好的,但冬天播种和春天播种,结果不同。

领导也是如此。公司正在危机中,领导最重要的是稳定人心,而不是马上谈宏大的五年愿景。

员工刚犯错误、情绪激动时,你马上严厉批评,他可能只会防御;等他冷静下来再谈,他才听得进去。

投资也是如此。好公司不代表任何价格、任何时候都值得买。

所以:

顺时,不是等待好运,而是看懂时机之后采取适当行动。

这就是《易经》所谓的**“时中”**——行为要符合当下的时与位。

二、什么叫“有序”?

有序,就是万事万物都有发展的次序。

你不能今天认识一个人,明天就要求他完全信任你。

企业也不能还没有好产品,就急着大规模营销;没有现金流,却急着扩张。

领导更不能跳过“理解”,直接要求“执行”。

可以把它简单地表达为:

了解 → 信任 → 行动 → 成果

如果次序颠倒,就容易出现问题。

这与《易经》的元、亨、利、贞也很接近:

元——开始
亨——发展
利——产生价值
贞——守成、持续

每一个阶段,都有那个阶段应该做的事情。

三、我们每天如何实践“顺时有序”?

我认为最简单的方法,是在重大决定之前问自己三个问题:

第一:现在是不是时候?
不是问这件事好不好,而是问现在做对不对。

第二:我现在处于什么阶段?
是应该开始、发展、收获,还是守成?

第三:下一步是什么,而不是最后一步是什么?

很多人的焦虑,就是因为今天站在第一步,却一直想着第十步。

“有序”告诉我们:

不需要一次解决人生,只需要把现在这一阶段做好。

四、它对领导最大的启示

传统管理经常问:

What should I do? 我要做什么?

《易经》式领导还要多问两个问题:

When should I do it? 什么时候做?
In what sequence? 按什么次序做?

所以我甚至会把“顺时有序”总结成一个非常适合领导课程的公式:

对的人 + 对的事 + 对的时间 + 对的次序 = 更大的成功概率

能力很重要,努力也很重要。

但一个真正有智慧的人,不是什么时候都拼命向前冲。

该进则进,该退则退;
该快则快,该慢则慢;
该开始时开始,该等待时等待。

这就是“顺时有序”。

也正是《易经》教我们的一个重要人生智慧:

人生不是凡事越快越好,而是在对的时间,做对的事情;按照对的次序,让事情自然成熟。

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